The Power of Words (quotes from this article adapted
from other sources)
A wise king
once wrote: “The tongue has the power of
life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” It seems a
direct contradiction to a perhaps more familiar proverb which says, “Sticks and
stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” Oh, really?
Words don’t hurt? Try telling
that to the families of children who have been bullied into isolation,
depression, even suicide. In fact, words
are very powerful and carry with them the potential to render great harm or
good to the recipient.
I once had
the misfortune of squandering an entire semester in an English Lit class,
simply because of poor choices to procrastinate and avoid reading the material.
The result: failing a college English
course in my sophomore year—and English was my minor! As a junior, I transferred to a new school,
retook the course I had failed, and met a new teacher. Personally, I struggled with whether or not I
was really as unintelligent as
getting an F would normally suggest. You can imagine the shock when I got back
my first paper in my new class with a big red A atop the page and this simple
comment from my new prof: “Your superior talent is quite evident.” In six simple words, I shed my shame of being
a loser to really believing something was working upstairs after all. I never forgot it, aced the class, and went
on to teach English for ten years upon graduating from college.
Do words
matter? Consider the thoughts of greater
minds than mine…
Out of the abundance of
the heart the mouth speaks. -Jesus
Half the world is
composed of people who have something to say and can't, and
the other half who have nothing to say and keep on saying it. -Robert Frost
There are two types who
say very little: the quiet type and the gabby type. -Unknown
Wise men talk because they
have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
-Plato
Do not be quick with
your mouth; do not be hasty in your heart to utter anything before God. God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few. As a dream comes when there are many
cares, so the speech of a fool when there are many
words. Much dreaming and many words are meaningless. Therefore stand in awe of God. -King Solomon
Most conversations are
simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness. -Margaret Millar
Women speak because
they wish to speak, whereas a man speaks only when driven to speech by
something outside himself; like, for instance, he can't find any clean
socks. -Jean Kerr
After all is said and
done, more is said than done. -Unknown
The words we say will
teach if we practice what we preach. -Unknown
When you are arguing
with a fool, make sure he isn't doing the same thing. -Unknown
If it takes a lot of
words to say what you have in mind - give it more thought. -Dennis Roth
The difference between
the right word and the almost right
word is the difference between lightning and the lightning bug. -Mark Twain
Don't speak unless you
can improve on the silence. -Spanish Proverb
Never miss a good
chance to shut up. -Will Rogers
Don't use words too big
for the subject. Don't say "infinitely" when you mean
"very"; otherwise
you'll have no word left when you want to talk about something really infinite.
-C.S. Lewis
Man does not live by
words alone, despite the fact that sometimes he has to eat them.
-Adlai
Stevenson
One half the troubles
in this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon
enough. -Josh Billings
If you think little of
a person, you ought to say as little as you think. -Benjamin Franklin
The bitterest tears shed
over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.
-Harriet Beecher
Stowe
Let your speech be
always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer
every man. -Colossians 4:6
May the words of my
mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer. -Ps. 19:14
Couldn’t
have said it better myself. Speak life
into those around you today. You never
know when it just might be a lifeline.
tad
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